Monday, February 9, 2009

how to get back together with your ex


Youve busted up, and it prolly got nasty, stinging words thrown like darts, aimed at the heart. The light of your life has left and your world suddenly seems so cold and bleak. What was once a cozy warm togetherness now feels lonely and empty. Your self esteem takes a big nose dive and you feel so worthless.

Perhaps you have made some mistakes, perhaps you reached your boiling point, perhaps you want to teach your partner a lesson, perhaps maybe alot of things have happened for you to reach the point where you are now. But im here to tell you theres hope.

Now dont get me wrong, im not suggesting you get back with a partner that has been abusive or violent, no, what im saying is no matter what the situation is of the break up, no situation is unsalvageable!!

When it comes to saving a relationship, most people have no idea what to do or even where to begin. This usually results in resorting to every tactic imaginable to win them back. The problem with this approach is that it comes across as needy and desperate and will push your ex away, killing any chance of getting back together. You're trying to figure out how to get over a broken heart, so it's understandable that your emotions may try to lead your actions.

I feel there are 3 very important steps to prepare in getting back with your ex.

1) Create the space in your life for your relationship and that means dedication, commitment to making it work, and prolly alot of apologies. Acknowledge their uniqueness, their emotions, their expectations and goals.

2) Admit your mistakes it time to eat some humble pie. No one is perfect, we have all made mistakes along the line. Sometimes MAJOR ones. But however big or small they are, you must take responsibility for your part, and learn from them.

3) Giving them time by giving them their space, you indicate that you are not desperate and needy, by feeling overly anxious to win your ex back can lead you to act in a way that comes across as desperate. Your ex knows you very well and can sense that you're chasing them and pressuring them for a reunion. The natural human reaction is to resist.

What if? What they said and what they did could be "bottled" so to speak? And then you could "unbottle" it and put it to use? To erase old hurts...to reignite passion again, to turn back to a time when your relationship was fresh, new and exciting. Instead of working against human nature, work with it.

I must WARN YOU…STRONGLY WARN YOU…the advice and methods are VERY unconventional. Relationship counselors get REALLY ANGRY because they are charging $50 to $100 an hour (sometimes for months and even years) when I can whisper just one of the methods in my friends ear…and he DOES IT, and next thing you know, he's back home, on the couch watching House with his fiance on Wednesday nights.

If you are one of the thousands that are miserable and longing to get back with you ex, then I strongly urge you to read this report and take action!!

We all have been there, dumped, hurt and confused. It can be pure torture, but there are ways to get your ex back without going through all the mental anguish. Read on to find out some stunning ways which you can get your ex back where they belong... WITH YOU!!

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