Thursday, October 6, 2011

learning how to talk dirty

One of the biggest hurdles to talking dirty is our comfort levels. You may find yourself asking "What does my partner want" or maybe you ask yourself "How Should I Talk Dirty To My Boyfriend?" and then you might think what is going too far, and what isn't going far enough? How do you even know that he will embrace your sexy minx at all? If he's dropped clues or has already talked dirty to you in bed, then you have an idea that he wants you to get a little dirtier. However, for the teddy bear who isn't sure where to start, the whole idea of dirty talk can be a lil intimidating not to mention embaressing!!

Remember, even the best dirty talkers start from somewhere. Start out slow - flirting and sexy body language! Read and watch erotica together. Take notes. Show your lover how much they are turning you on. Slip a sexy note into his pocket or in some surprize spot. Make it short and sweet like "I loved what we did last night" get into his head and let his thoughts run wild. Send him mail at some point when his away, telling him something spicy, a little flirty, and subtle, like: "I love the way you kiss me."

He's probably going to respond, and engage you to talk more, and you should! Don't hesitate to get a bit steamier with him. "I love the way you do that," will make him wonder: What is it that turned her on? And what, exactly? It will get him thinking about the last time the two of you had sex, and that's what we want him thinking. You want him thinking about sex with you, because the more he thinks about it, the more he's going to want to be more eager and crave for more.

When you are in bed, test your dirty talk prowness by trying out anything other than words. Talk to him in sighs, moans and whispers. Show him what you desire with your breathless utterings - show him exactly where and how you want to be touched. Even if you've had sex hundreds of times, showing desire will make it seem like a fresh new encounter.

When the sighs and moans have relayed your message, start talking about his sexy body! Caress his chest, tracing your fingers up and down while you tell him how strong and handsome he looks. Make direct eye contact and ask, "Do you like that, sexy boy? Do you want more?"

The trick is to keep him talking and guide you to the kind of dirty talk he wants to hear. If he gets raunchy and makes you blush, don't stop and slink into silence - instead, show how much its turning you on with sexy moans and answer his hot words with sexy words of your own. Work to build up that unbareable ache until you're saying things that you thought you would never hear yourself say. Watch for his reaction, which will prolly be one of surprize and more great sex.

He will respond favorably to your down and dirty talking, and remember the sky's the limit! You have just shown how sexy you can be and make him desire you and experiment with you even more!

Click the player below to listen into my audio version of Learning How To Talk Dirty

Miz Helenas Dating Tips - A Guide To Talking Dirty and Cybersex Tips