Sunday, June 28, 2009

where has the love gone?

one thing that i noticed when coming home from the train station tonight is the lack of togetherness couples have....have anyone noticed this??.....theyre out walking their dogs....with such long faces...no chatter amongst themselves....no holding hands....no laughter....no togetherness as a couple....no love....common...whats up ppl...???...why are you all like that???...

in this world we take so many things for granted dont we??...why cant we show some love for one another???..is it too hard too???...would we be seen as weak if we do show love???...why cant we laugh together or even have a conversation????...is it that difficult???...what example are we showing our kids???....we need to make a stronger effort to show & display our feelings for one another....

when our partner goes away or dies why is it that we only then remember that we didnt do enough together & that we wish we could have done more??...why???...we must learn to appreciate our partners & learn to live in the now....cherish every God given moment together....learn to fully experience everything as a couple....because you dont know whats around the corner do you???...what if you both had a massive fight then one leaves for the day to go to work...still having a long face & not even bothering to even say see you later tonight.... have a nice day and a quick kiss....then the partner is killed during a accident on the way to work....how would you feel knowing he or she left this world with both of you not speaking to each other& showing your love for one another???....

live each day as if its your last...do not take advantage of anything.....as you never know whats around the corner for any of us...phone or txt your darling and tell them how much you love them right now...pick up the phone & dial...its not such a big deal is it??...you'll find them pleasantly surprized with your sudden call...& you can be guaranteed lots of loving attention when they get home....all simple things one can do for the sake of keeping love alive....make an effort to dress nice & keep up grooming habits...

do not make the mistake of thinking well ive got them now theyre mine I dont need to make an effort anymore....how wrong you are....no it doesnt work like that....keep spontaniety alive by doing outrageous things on the fly...plan a picnic....or a night of intense love-making....making an effort to be your sexiest will open new desires within yourselves.....keep the romance alive....go out to a romantic dinner or a walk along the beach hand in hand....dont be afraid to show your affections...do it often...its not a sign of weakness but a sign of great strength...open the lines of communication.....to bring back that spark.... love has its rewards....

sometimes i really envy couples that have been together for a long time....obviously they have the winning formula for keeping love alive....that loving spark aglow....what a brilliant feeling that is....dont you think...???....yes ppl we all do need to make a conscious effort to keep love alive within our dull relationships...same goes for friendships...as they can go stale too....try to do differnt things....experiment with what you both like...& introduce it in slowly.....keep friendships alive.....after all isnt it our friends we turn to in times of need???...what if they werent there in those times of need because we failed to do things needed to keep that friendship????....you'll be kicking yourself wouldnt you???....

sometimes we need to swallow our pride....for the sake of our relationships....do not feel that making an effort will make you seem the fool.....love knows no such feelings....love has no boundarys....follow your heart and you cant go wrong....the love in our heart will lead the way....the love in our heart will prevail....it always does...it rises above all....& conquers all....

I do hope i have given you all something to chew on with the above on love & relationships....if we all made a conscious effort the world would be such a better place to live in for all...

until next time....sending you all my love & good wishes...
Miz Helena XX