Sunday, April 29, 2012

How To Use Body Languge To Show Interest




Neither a lofty degree of intelligence nor imagination
nor both together go to the making of genius.
Love, love, love, that is the soul of genius.
Mozart


We all know that if you wink at someone you’re sending them a signal that says you’re interested in them. Granted, most of us aren’t comfortable being quite that forward with a perfect stranger, but there are more subtle ways of showing interest by using body language.

It can be difficult when you are in a crowded bar or even at the grocery store to know if the person you find attractive is available, must less interested. However, with just a few small moves you can send them a signal that says you are open to getting to know them better.

Here are a few fun examples:
Running your hand through your hair. When a woman runs her hand through her hair, she is giving off a subtle signal that she is receptive. The reason for this is because when a woman pulls her hair away from her shoulders or her chest she is revealing more of herself to the man who has caught her eye.

Licking your lips. When a woman licks her lips or applies lipstick, she is drawing attention to her mouth. Because a woman’s mouth is a very sensual part of her body, a man is sure to take notice and will feel drawn to her.

Crossing the legs. Men absolutely love legs, and when a woman slowly crosses or uncrosses her legs, it catches a man’s attention. It’s a flirty move that is sure to get noticed, probably by more men than just the one she is trying to show interest in.

Smiling. Even something as simple as smiling is a form of body language. It shows that you are friendly and approachable. If you are interested in a man in the room, smiling at him will surely get his attention.

Looking directly into his eyes. Eye contact is one of the strongest forms of body language. When a woman looks into a man’s eyes, even before they have spoken, she is telling him that she’s not only comfortable with herself, but that she is very comfortable with him as well. Men love a strong woman and when a woman takes the initiative and makes eye contact, the man is much more likely to approach her.

Body language can be the difference between catching the eye of the man who has caught your attention or him wandering towards another person. Every woman should feel comfortable in her own skin and in using her feminine wiles to entice a man she finds intriguing. With just a few simple movements, a woman can show a man that his approaches are more than welcomed.

The first step is smiling and making eye contact, and after that, it is all up to you. Using body language to show your interest is a smart and effective way of breaking the ice. If you’re single and you see someone appealing, give it a try. You may just be surprised at how well those subtle movements work.