Monday, June 29, 2009

men love to be fingered in the ass

It's not just girls who love the odd finger or two slipped in our ass during foreplay or sex. And it's not just girls who can be fucked with a few fingers and a lover's tongue. Guys get off on it just as much, as you'll find out......

'I don't remember how we got there, but it hardly took any time at all. I hurriedly showed her around my flat, which she surveyed with a polite lack of interest until we reached the bedroom........

We both stared at my unmade bed. For minutes. 'You can get into bed without any help, right?' she whispered eventually, as if not wanting to disturb the charged atmosphere our mutual heavy breathing had cast in the small room.

'Sure.'

'Well go on then.' She said.

Within moments we were in the bed, both naked and her mouth was clamped on mine. She was rough, driving her way inside and sucking brutally on my lower lip. Her skin against mine felt so good. It was all I could do not to come just from the sound of her rapid heart-beat and the feel of her heat.

She moved from my mouth, nipping her way across my cheek until she reached my ear. 'I want to fuck you with my mouth,' she hissed.

I laughed. 'Don't you mean you want me to fuck you with my mouth?'

'No.' She rolled me onto my stomach with an impassioned sigh. Once I was positioned the way she wanted, she straddled my legs and bent down to flicker her tongue across my exposed buttocks. I flinched, uneasy, not sure if this was something I wanted but somehow I couldn't find the words to tell her to stop. So I quivered there beneath her as she let her tongue dart everywhere. Absolutely everywhere.

I gasped when she nudged at my little hidden hole, at the same time splaying me with one hand so that I was open and wanton for her. And then I found myself moaning as she teasingly let her tongue lap over that hot little mouth, again and again, until it was so hungry that I was thrusting my hips up to meet her every caress. Aching. Aching for something. Anything. More.

Responding to my desperate thrusting, she pushed the very tip of her tongue gently inside me. I was so needy and desperate for her by that point that I bucked like an animal, half begging and half sobbing, my face buried in the pillows while my desperate erection ground against the mattress.

Thankfully my frustration didn't last long. One of her hands snaked underneath me, forming a lubricated fist around my cock. I thrust into the warm soft well gratefully. Seconds later her tongue, which was starting to feel hopelessly small inside me, was replaced by a finger, then two, and the most amazing sensation as she stroked her way inside me with her other hand, fucking me decisively. I'd never felt anything like it.

And in moments, with her hands manipulating me from every direction, I was spasming for her soaking the sheets beneath me, half screaming, half blacking out.'

She held me for a long while after that, brushing my hair away from my face, waiting until I had recovered. Eventually I found I could speak again. 'If that was a pity fuck,' I breathed, 'then I think I do need your pity.'

'She propped herself up on her elbow and looked down at me. 'It's only a pity if we don't do that again,' she said, emphasizing her point with a brief kiss before clambering from the bed and walking naked into the kitchen of my tiny flat.

***** taken from "Mathilde Madden's Wheels On Fire, published in Wicked Words 10: The Best Of Wicked Words (Black Lace)"

Sunday, June 28, 2009

where has the love gone?

one thing that i noticed when coming home from the train station tonight is the lack of togetherness couples have....have anyone noticed this??.....theyre out walking their dogs....with such long faces...no chatter amongst themselves....no holding hands....no laughter....no togetherness as a couple....no love....common...whats up ppl...???...why are you all like that???...

in this world we take so many things for granted dont we??...why cant we show some love for one another???..is it too hard too???...would we be seen as weak if we do show love???...why cant we laugh together or even have a conversation????...is it that difficult???...what example are we showing our kids???....we need to make a stronger effort to show & display our feelings for one another....

when our partner goes away or dies why is it that we only then remember that we didnt do enough together & that we wish we could have done more??...why???...we must learn to appreciate our partners & learn to live in the now....cherish every God given moment together....learn to fully experience everything as a couple....because you dont know whats around the corner do you???...what if you both had a massive fight then one leaves for the day to go to work...still having a long face & not even bothering to even say see you later tonight.... have a nice day and a quick kiss....then the partner is killed during a accident on the way to work....how would you feel knowing he or she left this world with both of you not speaking to each other& showing your love for one another???....

live each day as if its your last...do not take advantage of anything.....as you never know whats around the corner for any of us...phone or txt your darling and tell them how much you love them right now...pick up the phone & dial...its not such a big deal is it??...you'll find them pleasantly surprized with your sudden call...& you can be guaranteed lots of loving attention when they get home....all simple things one can do for the sake of keeping love alive....make an effort to dress nice & keep up grooming habits...

do not make the mistake of thinking well ive got them now theyre mine I dont need to make an effort anymore....how wrong you are....no it doesnt work like that....keep spontaniety alive by doing outrageous things on the fly...plan a picnic....or a night of intense love-making....making an effort to be your sexiest will open new desires within yourselves.....keep the romance alive....go out to a romantic dinner or a walk along the beach hand in hand....dont be afraid to show your affections...do it often...its not a sign of weakness but a sign of great strength...open the lines of communication.....to bring back that spark.... love has its rewards....

sometimes i really envy couples that have been together for a long time....obviously they have the winning formula for keeping love alive....that loving spark aglow....what a brilliant feeling that is....dont you think...???....yes ppl we all do need to make a conscious effort to keep love alive within our dull relationships...same goes for friendships...as they can go stale too....try to do differnt things....experiment with what you both like...& introduce it in slowly.....keep friendships alive.....after all isnt it our friends we turn to in times of need???...what if they werent there in those times of need because we failed to do things needed to keep that friendship????....you'll be kicking yourself wouldnt you???....

sometimes we need to swallow our pride....for the sake of our relationships....do not feel that making an effort will make you seem the fool.....love knows no such feelings....love has no boundarys....follow your heart and you cant go wrong....the love in our heart will lead the way....the love in our heart will prevail....it always does...it rises above all....& conquers all....

I do hope i have given you all something to chew on with the above on love & relationships....if we all made a conscious effort the world would be such a better place to live in for all...

until next time....sending you all my love & good wishes...
Miz Helena XX

Saturday, June 27, 2009

dating: stud or dud?

Hello all you super freaks ,

hope everything is super kool and groovy in your world...hey gather round and get ya freak on...i have a very popular topic i wanna discuss...lol... mmm remember that kool G-funk track Regulator?? (by Nate Dog and Warren G) guaranteed to get you in the mood....mmmm...kool smooth sexy track...its in my ears right now just had to mention it ...lol...ok back now

ok lets talk about that HOTT date everyone...ok girls/guys...weve all been there before.. havent we??...you know...spending all day Saturday preparing ourselves for that special date on Saturday nite....waxing, make up, clothes, hair, shoes, matching bags, zit free face, everything has to be perfect doesnt it?? and if its not then you call it off...familiar right??...yes well ive been there too my friends...

met a really kool guy online early last year in Syd that i started seeing (made sure i checked him out first off course...making sure he was who he said he was...he got me to check work...home...friends...clubs memberships...and everything was as he said it was..so felt ok )..he is a real gentleman ...

we went out on some really fab fun dates...usually to dinner first followed by dancin till the small wee early hours then going back to his place and picking each others brains out...i would say this guy was a 10 on the scale of 0-10...with his dating ettiquette...he knows and understands women...perfect score as far as i was concerned...

let me explain why I think he was the perfect date...
1) he was always on time...ALWAYS...I hate it when a guy keeps me waiting...I get nervous and fidgety...I prefer to keep him waiting..somehow a guy can always accepts there is some waiting around at times

2) he always holds my hand when we are out walking together...lets everyone around know that we are a item...not neccessarily a couple...but still an item..I like that when a guy can do that freely scores points with me....

3) is always attentive..I would have his full attention at dinner...chatting holding hands...laughing together..and also very complimentary...this guy knew exactly what women are all about and he knew what they liked and wanted...he notices when a woman dresses and makes an effort to look nice and pays her a compliment..scores points again with me...(taking notes guys??)...you definately will learn by this...so its a good thing to do so....

4) He introduces me to all his friends..and my title is not a mere "hey mate this is a friend of mine"...no....he introduces you as his date..some guys can be gutless and get scared shitless when their friends are around and dont know how to address their dates so they dont bother giving her a title..just saying "this is Julie" for example...

5) He keeps asking if im ok...did I wanna go or stay or go somewhere else...keeps checking with me in other words...just to see if I was ok or was bored...or wanted to do something else instead...(points accumulating here fast)...by this time, if he continues like this.. I could very easily fall in love :D

6) always pulls you close when out clubbin...so close that you can feel the warmth of his body next to yours...smell his cologne...and feel his breath on you...very sensual...very passionate...mmm...again scores high...(should also have a love-o-meter going here too...to measure the love vibes... Razz ..lol)

7) always thoughtful...always asking me what I want to do...not just deciding on what he wants...so we make decisions together...scoring plenty again....

ok well ive rambled on a bit here now...but I wanted to make it clear just what I think a great date is..perhaps I set too high standards??? do you think I do??..I dont think so...I just thrive on all of his passion for life and his healthy respect for women

ok just as theres the studs...theres the dud....xx

ohhh noooo the desperate date from HELL...I think you know the kind right?...tries too hard...desperate...inconsiderate...very quiet until he gets plastered to mask his insecurities...and gathers some dutch courage....tries to be something their not....treats you as a possession..and becomes a leach...sulking even if you talk to anyone else...hanging off you practically...oh my....whats up guys??..lighten up

let me tell you all of my date from HELL ...sometimes I even question myself the things I get myself into....lol...

a client from work became close over time...giving me his address and number and constantly asking me out...everytime he use to see me he would always say i love you..and be very passionate around me...nothing wrong with being passionate..esp if your European like he was....

anyways,.. one night I agreed to go..but was a little apprehensive i remember ..but told myself he was a regular loyal client.. so after meeting him in a club.... the night began...OMG...what a disaster it ended up being..almost from the start...he started becoming a real royal prick...constantly disagreeing and arguing with me...over minor shit too like what I should drink...what I should be wearing...not to walk around and talk to anyone...putting me down....the drunker he got the worst he became..

his insecurities began to surface..and rear their ugly heads...I couldnt wait to get out of there...he must of sensed this and he started to become clingy...always a date fizzler for me..feeling suffocated and in need of sum breathing space... his mood changed dramatically.. becoming almost nasty.. sarcastic...cocky...sharp tongued..I had enough..I excused myself and went to get a cab home..he followed me to the rank...and started apologising... i wasnt falling for it though.. once a prick always a prick...and so arrogant.. NO THANKS..

I finally got home and ran a long bath and lying back ..went back over the events of the evening... I almost felt sorry for him.. I feel from what he told me he doesnt have much success with women and has become bitter over this...still no excuses to become like that...get on with things.. life a full life..be positive...make the most of what youve got... once your life is in order and your happy..the rest will follow...love ..happiness .. soulmate even...

whatever you do guys...WARNING...YOU STAND OUT A MILE LONG if this is you..

so yes...this is my expriences with my date from HELL...not pleasant.. you may think im a shallow person when i tell you all this...but tell me honestly guys..lets reverse the situation here now...if your date was behaving like that..would you like it??...

I would love to hear of your dating disasters too...and of the hunnys that you may have dated as well.... yes I wanna hear everything you wanna say...

ok guys so now you know a little about the correct dating etiquette....be respectful.. confident.. suave...kool..ooze sex appeal (comes with being confident and positive) mostly just be you...without any false courages...your date will sure like you even more....you even will seem sexier.. be edgy..project strength.. but also dont be afraid to show your vulnurable side .. it wont make you less of a man..

ok guys...what can you add to this??...feel free to post your comments. would like to hear any stories of your dates too... always interesting....

thanks so much for tuning in.. xx