Thursday, November 15, 2012

Her Delicious Intimidating Revenge

The trip was long, the thoughts of the past few months still preoccupying Her mind, running hot, burning almost as She entered the taxi. She loaded Her bag and finally settled down and began the long journey to his door. This was to be a surprize visit, one he wasn’t aware of or for that matter, wouldnt have anticipated in his wildest dreams. There was much between them unresolved. Flames still flickered beneath the surface and even though they hadn’t spoken for quite some time, there was always something there that kept reminding Her.

The taxi driver was a polite handsome man in his prime and was attempting to make small talk which didn’t interest Her. There was a scene replying in Her head that needed Her attention and distractions like these were not welcomed. “I’ve had quite a long arduous trip” She said.. “And im looking forward to rest & sleep. I assume I can count on you to get us there safely and in one piece? Yes?” he peered at Her in the rear view mirror. A raven haired beauty with a mouth. Somehow something was telling him She wasn’t on her way to rest. Her beautiful finely sculptured face spoke volumes and seemed to be far away. He nodded quickly and took that as a direct request to shut the hell up. Which he did promptly.

She sank back into the seat, a long sigh escaping her lips, closing Her eyes and letting Her mind drift. Everything She needed was neatly packed away and just to make sure She began a mental note if there was anything else She missed. Then his smiling face appeared. The same smiling face She saw on his face the last She saw of him, seering into Her. She quickly brushed it away. She wasn’t here for any loving reunion or convincing. As drastic as it sounded, Her mission was to remind him of a few things She thought he needed to be reminded of then get the hell out of there fast.

Nothing was amiss. She prided herself on Her meticulous and calculated planning of this day, months ago. No one in their right mind got off treating Her like a discardable pawn, one to be strung along till something more convenient came along and being the last to find out. NO ONE. Finally all the pieces clicked together. Did he not have the slightest idea who he was playing with? This was a fiery hot-blooded woman who had the most heart-felt sincerest devotion even though 1000’s of miles came between them. Who loved him in a strange obsessive way, utterly, complete, mind-blowing in every sense and in a way no one ever made her feel for a long time. He slowly became part of Her. Her thoughts and desires were for him alone, and oh how it ached.

Snapping to attention, She straightened up and checked Her reflection. She had to appear normal. Nothing must give away Her inner turmoil. She pulled out her vanity purse and began to freshen up, dusting Her flushed cheeks and reapplying Her red gloss, then checked again and secretly smirked to Herself. He doesn’t have the faintest idea does he? A remark She constantly reminded herself of that fed the scene in Her mind. This day was to become Her moment to relish in and it was drawing close.

Oh but wait.. She did need something..

Motioning to the taxi driver, She requested he stop at the nearest shop before the destination to purchase Her ‘ticket’ Her ‘Trojan horse’ offering. Well, she had to appear friendly and delight him with something before he invited Her inside. “the nearest township is about 10 mins away Miss” said the driver. Hmmm ok. Now what do I get him? She thought to herself. She didn’t want to appear too keen or too casual, even if this was the first time She was to meet him She wanted him to think She was thoughtful and kind and pleased to see him. Perhaps a small useful souvenir will do nicely.

They finally arrived and the driver stopped. It was a lovely quaint town which offered a lot and She had fun browsing making the choice hard, finally selecting a delicious compilation of subtle erotic poetry and a bookmark he’d be sure to love. Smiling, She got back in the cab and the driver sped away. “not long to go now Miss, we should be there in no time” "thank you driver" She was in a good mood, even if She was a little nervous…

It was still morning when they arrived. The sun was shining the beginning of a pleasant day it seemed and She hoped She would spot him outside instead of having to knock at his door. Yes! How much more surprising would that be She smugly thought to catch him unawares. Turning off the main road, they finally came to a stop. Her heart was beating fast as She fumbled for her purse, her eyes darting everywhere. She paid the driver and retreived her bag from the boot compartment and slowly began the few steps to his door. She prided in the fact She was dressed and groomed well, with tailored jacket and long skirt with adjustable thigh high boots that hid her surprize latex undergarments well and to top it off, a sexy black cap that when she lowered her head, would shield her eyes. It was time!

She took a deep breath and checked Herself again and knocked on the door. There was no turning back now.

He opened it and stared for a moment at the woman before him…

"Hello dear" She managed, as he continued to stare, finally clicking on hearing Her accent and almost falling over himself and turning a bright shade of red in the process. He mumbled a slight hello back and couldn’t believe what he was seeing. OMG!!! What was She doing here?? “how are you dear?” She said looking at him straight in the eye relishing in his reaction. He was dumbfounded, yet his dream was unfolding before him. The woman he once loved and cherished but lost was standing before him. Was he dreaming?? He reached out and hugged Her tightly and invited Her in, little did he know what She had in store underneath Her cool exterior.

"Did you miss me dear?" She asked him as She was being led to his spacious lounge room and offered a seat and a cup of tea. "Its so very good to see you and you look fabulously sexy" he muttered and settled Her before disappearing into the kitchen, nerves apparent. He came back a few moments later with a tray of goodies for them and sat down beside Her. The closeness was both exhilarating and disturbing for Her. All those months of turbulent emotions were coming to the surface and She couldn’t hold it in much longer. The small talk felt out of place between them considering the fire they both had inside for one another at one time. Still, She kept Her composure and engaged in pleasantaries.

"Oh I have a little something for you dear I hope you like it". She got up and headed for Her bag which She placed on the side table and immediately felt his eyes on Her. She knew this and made an effort to tease him slightly by bending down turning around to watch him before reaching into Her bag and grabbing his gift.

He shifted. That brief, seductive vision of Her playing in his mind and found himself unable to sit still. “There you go dear, a little something for a lovely bedtime read“. “Oh thank you very much” he said. He was delighted even though he was flustered by Her presence. She sat watching him open it with slightly trembling hands and thought to herself how splendid it was he found Her appealing even though he was oblivious to what was about to unleash.

The cat was about to pounce. She couldn’t hold it any longer...

"So, did you think you would never see me again?" She blurted, forcing him into silence. He looked at Her with surprize and embaressment. She welcomed the look, in fact, she wanted him right where he couldn’t talk back but just listen to the months of past agony pour out, where She would at the slightest of protest from him, shoot him down and make him think twice about what he would say. She continued. "I loved you and would have done anything to be with you, but you had different ideas, you chose a slut over Me. A slut who would gloat over her supposed victory over having you and getting rid of Me, a slut you were content with receiving sloppy seconds from, you disgust Me boy and I thought I knew you, how wrong I was. Im glad ive woken up, you are scum hunny, there I said it! You don’t know the true meaning of what it is to love someone, you threw away everything instead of listening to your heart, you are nothing but a dirty filthy cunt."

She was raging by this time and all he could do was hang his head in shame, afraid to talk back even tho he wanted to tell Her he still loved her, still was the one for him, still had Her under his skin and thought of Her constantly, and yes, She was right of course with all the rest.

She stood up and looked down upon him. "Im here dear to show you what you have missed out on and what you’ll never get to have EVER. Just a little reminder of me to instill in that head of yours and torment you when I leave". It was time for him to discover his fate, what her true intentions were and his fate lay in the secrets Her bag held.

"Stand up and remove your jeans" she demanded "pulled down just enough for me to see your filthy cock not all the way". She wanted an eye on his cock at all times as She was about to do the most vile things to him. Shocked and stunned, he complied, slowly unbuttoning his jeans and sliding them down whilst She grabbed her bag of goodies and pulled out a set of metal handcuffs, handcuffing his hands behind his back and ordering him to kneel on the floor, hissing voraciously into his ear "This is to ensure you don’t get any filthy ideas dearest and trust me you wouldn’t want to". She had him right where She wanted him. It was playtime now. He was about to experience the pent up anger She was about to unleash and my, what fun She had in store.

Stepping back, She removed her skirt and jacket and delighted in his gasping reaction. Her black latex catsuit fit her like a glove and accentuated her curves well. Her generous bust thrust forward through the holes the top half provided and her boots made her feel like She was towering over him. Ordering him up, She instructed him to lead her to his bedroom. She wanted the intimate feel of where he spends his time with her to become Her territory for now.

Entering the bedroom, She immediately was engrossed with the repungnant visuals of their secret trysts. Eyeing the bed, She envisioned the way he made her his plaything, oblivious to any pain She must be feeling, totally absorbed in his own pleasures without a care. She wanted to make him Her whore for now, to degrade and reduce his pompous male ego to a shred. She wanted him on display, flayed, and getting a taste of what Her emotions felt like, raw and exposed, vulnerable and bruised.

"On your knees boy, facing me", she sneered. She stood over him looking down at the pathetic figure before her, almost feeling sorry for him but instead sniggering at his predicament. He looked up at Her, her breasts a frame for Her menacing stare as She caught him gawking. Bending down cupping his chin in her hand, she breathed ‘disrespectful boys need to be taught advertency to ones emotions.’ "Nod if you understand this boy". He nodded slightly, head bowed and immediately felt Her harsh slap across his cheek. ‘What utter nonsense boy, I do not appreciate being made a fool of’ She jeered. Seating herself in the armchair in the corner, She motioned for him to crawl over to Her on his knees. Inching his way, with his erect cock swaying, his eyes feasted upon Her sleek black latex curves, watching Her sit seductively, bust thrust forward, a sculptured form of pure intimidation, kneeling inches away from Her crossed intimidating boots.

She looked down and derided at his plight, repulsed & delighted at his inability to control his impulsions. ‘aww look at the filthy little slut’ she hissed, pressing Her boot into his face "we have to do something about that, dont we little boycunt". She reached for Her bag of goodies and produced a flexible riding crop and a thick brutal black cock and strapped it on, slowly smirking to Herself as She waved it in his face. “Have a look at what I have for you to feast upon boy’ She said stoking it with one hand whilst grabbing his hair with the other and pushing his mouth down onto Her. She flicked it over his lips smacking him, forcing him to swallow Her thick head almost choking him.

Laying back in Her chair, She spread Her latex clad thighs, striking him with Her crop, taunting him "open up now and show me how much you desire to suck on a real cock. I want to see enthusiasm and how much my whorecunt can devour. Dont you agree I have been very generous boy?" Forced to swallow Her cock whole, She repeatedly rammed the back of his throat, while he continued to show his cocksucking prowness, stopping to humiliate him further by cockwhipping his slimey spit covered face. His weeping stiff cock was in agony.

Ordering him up and generously removing his handcuffs, She took his wet face in Her palm and kissed him softly, whispering 'Her huge rubber cock was eager to enter his wide horny hole and savagely splice open his tight pucker'. His cock leapt with Her words. The throbbing almost pushed him past the edge. He knew he had to have control or face the wrath of this demanding beautiful tyrant.

"Over by the bed and assume position on your hands and knees boy" She ordered he turn and look at Her waving Her cock, building the intense anticipation of what he was about to endure, pulling his head back and sneering at him. "Is this how you fuck her?" "Does she moan for you?" Positioning Her thick cock against his taunt resisting sluthole She began pushing the wide lubeless cockhead inside, tearing past his tight sphincter, soaking in his yelling cursing and deep groans.

His sweet ass was Hers now, fucking it repeatedly, his whining divine, bucking hard against Her, his rock hard cock was in agony and about to explode. The little slut was about to cop a mouthful of Her cum. This made him grab his cheeks and spread them wider for Her, as She thrust into him again and again. "oh look at the skanky whore. Where's that cock at cunt?.. scream it loud for me, tell me wheres that cock at?" "up my slutty cunt" he squeeled. She delighted at hearing his pathetic whining, pulling out and cumming *spitting* onto his face and into his open mouth, stuffing Her cock deep down his throat and allowing him to taste and savour the ass coated cock.

She decided to reward Her bitch with a nice ass-phyxiating smothering. All that brutal fucking had exhusted Her and She needed a cigarette. Unzipping Her latex and perching Her rounded ass on his face, She lit up, while he inhaled and got high on Her sweet aroma, smearing Her steamy butthole all over him.

Dazed and still partly in shock, he watched Her dress and pack away Her tools and calmly call a cab. Her anger was still simmering and She wasnt the slightest bit interested in hearing him complain or beg for her forgivesness. She came, She conquered and in the same manner swiftly got the hell out of there, leaving him with his mixed up thoughts, a throbbing rock hard cock and lots to clean up.

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Tuesday, November 13, 2012

Waiting For Her Command

the exuding acridity staining the mindscape
catching Her seering stare
silently bewildered drawing in soft breath
knowing only self sacrifice and servitude
feeding from Her with starving devotion
tumultuous, ravenous soaked to the skin
saturated by a stern rain of tears
Futile, he realizes,
he will soon have his mind and body in such compromise
tensing, holding of breath
he feels Her searching for a single trace of weakness
pulling his thoughts to Her
Her smirk slowly forming a wicked grin
closing in,
sustaining piercing eye contact
the sway of full hips against the tautness of Her latex
the bounce of Her generous breast
Her heels, so erotic
and those red stained lips, oh those lips
parting ever so lusciously,
waiting for Her command

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Friday, June 22, 2012

dont look for mr perfect- create him!

Many women are just too picky when it comes to their choice of a life partner.. we want a man of our dreams.. good looking, charming, considerate, loving, respectful.. and who are we to blame ourselves? we are fed a constant diet of Hollywood romances in which the actors have had powder dusted on their blemishes.. the plot always has them coming together so perfectly.. and the ending has them always living happily ever after and to top it all off.. they always seem to arouse our melancholy romantic mood with soft stirring background music.. rather than holding out for a perfect romantic fantasy.. we should be settling for a ' Mr Good Enough '
So if you really want to be happy you need a decent sense of reality..

But 'settling' ooowah... not that dreaded word.. the word 'settling' resounds with 'less' doesnt it? and who wants to be viewed as less right? we all have got some good and not so good habits.. the very nature of this life is that everything comes in polarities.. you know.. the up/downs.. in/outs.. male/female.. and everyone possesses the positive/negatives in one form or another.. you cannot avoid unpleasant characteristics.. it all makes up the type of people we are..
However, settling for less demeans the 'settlee' and drags down the 'settler' so viewing your partner for less is hardly going to enhance or improve your relationship..

In fact.. words are terribly important.. language is actually the one thing we use to define our experiences.. we name and describe our experiences in words.. we respond to our words with feelings.. and then we act out our feelings in our lives..
So since words are the foundations of our experiences.. it makes alot of sense to use them purposefully.. you cant very well go around saying.. "I feel awful".. "Nothing good ever happens to me" .. and expect to feel fabulous.. youve got to be conscious about what your saying and use the words you'd like to experience.. this is not some inspiring idea called 'positive thinking' .. no.. its just plain common sense..

Heres a good one.. "I need love".. ok.. we ALL need love.. its a basic human pre-requisite for blossoming.. but if we've got an "I need love" inhibit going on in the backs of our minds.. we are setting ourselves up for misery.. "I choose love".. "I desire love".. re-design your own statement and pay attention to the feeling it creates..

So if words have such an important bearing on our attitudes and experiences.. the way we think about our partners is significant.. to be honest i wouldn't like to be with someone who 'settled' for me.. the negative connocations are fashioned both ways right?.. the fact is when we dont think we're worth much.. we dont deserve much.. so we are unlikely to attract a really warm mate..

I believe the 'blues' are really gifts wrapped in paper.. if we can peel the deceptive wrapper away.. underneath lies the gift... heres how language comes into it.. changing "Im sick of this" into "I deserve better".. your self talk changes so does your self image and self esteem.. you practically coach yourself into a new headspace.. instead of 'settling' try 'choosing' it gives way to a much better feeling.. so hanging out for Mr Right isnt the smartest of moves.. the purpose of a healthy relationship is not nesassarily happiness but one of growth.. and while i agree that the 'perfect' partner is a myth.. i dont believe in giving up on our dreams either.. instead try immersing yourself with your partner until he is the ideal man of your dreams..

The whole point of a relationship is to hook up with someone who 'gets' you and is wonderful.. someone who values enough of the same things as you so that you are heading in the same direction.. usually when we do.. we dont notice the imperfections.. however that person will almost always value things directly opposite to what you do.. and thats where the growth comes into it..

I assume that if you were to sit down and make a list of all the pros and cons.. you'd find plenty to appreciate.. and also plenty of opportunity for growth.. so forget about the Mr Perfect concept.. its an illusion.. forget also about 'settling' thats just demeaning to both of you.. instead consider purposively co-creating your relationship.. tackle the undesireables.. plunge into honesty and open communication.. take responsibility for being the person you want to be in your life.. instead of wishing and hoping he changes.. YOU change..

This sort of address can be quite messy and uncomfy and things dont nesassarily change overnight.. but when they do its amazing ! in the midst of all the wonderment we are always dealing with the next challenge.. but hey .. thats life.. its all about growth and development.. we are not robots manufactured in some factory waiting to be programmed.. we are living.. breathing.. human beings who deserve to be respected.. loved and challenged.. anything can be transformed.. from a lil irritating habit to a relationship breakdown.. so long as we are willing to be open .. good listeners and observers.. and appreciative of ourselves and our mates..
I believe we all choose the journey that offers us the most growth.. so dont settle.. instead.. embrace the paper parcels and start unwrapping..


Saturday, May 12, 2012

Re-Working Your Break-Up

When you are faced with problems in your relationship, it would be easy to walk away and let it fail, while it is harder to stay and work it through. When you are faced with these issues, to keep it in perspective, think of the way you felt when you first met and the reason you fell in love. Remember the good and the bad times you shared, and what makes it worth it.

You know that it takes two to tango, and this applies to your relationship as well. An effort from only one party is not going to prove to be successful.

Many relationships fail for a number of reasons here are a few of the common ones:

· High expectations generally happen when entering a relationship viewing everything through rose-colored glasses/spectacles. When these expectations are not met disappointment and frustration soon follow.

· Financial issues are not taboo between couples. A household budget should be discussed early so you know what is expected of you. It is important to speak up about money issues when they first arise, and not scream about it when you both are angry.

· Manage your stress. Recognize what stresses you both out and do whatever you can to not fall prey. Too much stress can hamper one’s ability to think and respond properly.

· Compromise and do things as a couple. Go to a football match with him and take her shopping, or go on holiday together. Don’t be afraid to speak up and tell your significant other what you want and need. No offence to you guys, but you don’t take hints well, so learn to LISTEN, not just hear! Part of listening also involves not get defensive when she speaks to you, be genuine, compassionate, understanding and sincere.

· Spice up your relationship and go out and have a night on the town together. Bring home flowers and chocolates for no particular reason. Apologize if you have done something to upset her, and surprise her with something that she’s been wanting but do it for “no reason whatsoever” not because it’s her birthday or Valentine’s day.

Both of you have to be willing to make this relationship work. Don’t scream, argue and curse, rather sit down, call a meeting and be reasonable and logical about it. Try not to get too emotional, speak calmly when you say what you have to say.

There are an abundance of tips that can save your relationship, but like with all advice, it may not work in all situations. An understanding of your partner and what your relationship requires can provide you with what you need.

About The Author:
Oprah Love Expert Michael Webb is the founder of "Getting Her Back... for Good" and has taught 1000s of men all over the world how to recover their lost love. He details his steps and valuable advice at Getting Her Back.

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Thursday, May 10, 2012

Looking Into The Mirror Of Your Relationship

Everyone, sometime in their life has been disappointed in love. Breaking up is hard to go through, especially if you are not ready for it. If, after a breakup, you realize you still want your ex back, you need to be proactive about it. In order to do so, you need to reflect back on your relationship and try and understand where it went wrong.

Generally speaking, most relationships follow a predictable pattern. There is the honeymoon period where you first meet someone and everything is wonderful and new. They can do no wrong and you can do no wrong in their eyes. The sex is fantastic, the chemistry electric but after while, this starts to feel more comfortable rather than exciting. You start to adjust to one another, make compromises, and at this point, the relationship changes again. I call this the “establishment” period. At this point, cohabitation often occurs, a little “nesting” starts to rear its head and “she” and “he” become “we”.

A little further down the line comes the “disenchantment” stage where suddenly the little quirks that amused you and you were willing to overlook now start to bother you and in fact, often become the “bone of contention” as a means to “pick a fight”. This is the true test of a relationship and it is this particular phase of the relationship that you need to reflect upon. If you believe you can save your relationship after this deep reflection then you need to do the following:

1. Apologize!

So many “fools of love” out there say, “treat em mean, keeps em keen” and they are so far off the beaten track that they will never find their way on the path to true love. It takes strength of character and great sacrifice to apologize particularly if you do not believe you were in the wrong. However, sometimes it really is worth “losing a battle to win a war”. Once you have taken this first step, the rest is not that difficult to follow. Remember, it takes two people to have a successful relationship and knowing exactly what to apologize for is crucial.

2. Talking things through, face to face

Invite your ex to meet you at a time and place convenient for you both where you can sit down and talk. The idea is to be quietly assertive, not forceful, but intent enough to get her to agree to meet you face to face. You both need to chat about the issues objectively, without blame and maturely. If necessary, suggest couple counseling with a therapist so she can see that you are serious in your quest.

3. Give her some time and space – don’t pressurize her

This is probably one of the hardest things to do but by allowing your ex space not only gives her a chance to calm down and reflect, but also to miss you and it is true that as time passes, one only remembers the good times. By allowing a little time to pass, takes the heat of the anger out of the equation and emotions to settle into places of calm. This can only work in your favor.

4. Treat her like a lady

This doesn’t necessarily mean that you need to take her on a triple Treat of Champagne Breakfast, Balloon and Boat Ride but it does mean you need to do things differently! She is the most important person on earth to you; show her this in your actions, not only in your words!

About The Author:
Oprah Love Expert Michael Webb is the founder of "Getting Her Back... for Good" and has taught 1000s of men all over the world how to recover their lost love. He details his steps and valuable advice at Getting Her Back

Does wanting her back seem hopeless? What is the best way to get her back?

Friday, May 4, 2012

Re-Invent Yourself

You’ve broken up with your ex and are either single or with someone new but you know you jumped back into the dating pool too soon. You realize this was a rebound knee-jerk reaction and what’s worse, you can’t get your ex out of your mind. You want her back and you want her back for good! Stick around because not only will I tell you how you can get her back, but how you can improve on your own life and self-image at the same time.

We all know men and women are wired differently – “Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus right?”. But what if you could rewire yourself, both physically as well as emotionally! You can and whilst you may not wake up tomorrow a totally new person both physically and emotionally (believe me it doesn’t even happen overnight on those reality television shows), the first step in reinventing yourself to win her back is to START living the life you want to live and being the person you and SHE want you to be.

It can’t be that difficult or too far a reach or disconnect or else she wouldn’t have dated you in the first place right? We are all primed from early childhood, allocated labels, “athletic”, “academic”, “artistic” etc but often these labels are self-fulfilling prophecies that create our identity as opposed to shaping our identity.

Despite the fact that your breakup with your ex might have been the catalyst for your desire to change, self-actualization, or becoming who you need to be is part of life’s evolution. With evolution, your needs change, you acquire wisdom and experience and now you have reached a stage where you need to try something different. You may want to explore a new career, move to a different location, explore other activities and behaviors. In fact, this could also be the reason your relationship with your ex back-fired. Neither of you were getting what you needed. Perhaps she felt unappreciated or bored, and perhaps you found excuses to be away from home. However, the breakup between the two of you is treating the symptom, not the cause.

Take the next couple of days to make a list of all the positive and negative factors in your relationship but at the same time, look after yourself by eating healthily, exercising and getting enough sleep. This time apart allows you to reassess your life, and your possible life together with your ex, objectively. By the time you meet up with your ex she will already begin to see the ‘new emerging you’; and might possibly be inspired to join you. Whatever the situation, it is important to remember that you’re not stuck with who you were in the past. We often feel like who or what we aspire to be has to "make sense." But we're always growing, and taking a leap into a new life is exciting and even better with your ex by your side. It starts off as small steps and it was Confucius who said: “A journey of a thousand miles starts with the first step,” and so to reinvent yourself and your relationship, it’s often the little things that are the first step.

About The Author:
Oprah Love Expert Michael Webb is the founder of "Getting Her Back... for Good" and has taught 1000s of men all over the world how to recover their lost love. He details his steps and valuable advice at Getting Her Back

Sunday, April 29, 2012

How To Use Body Languge To Show Interest

Neither a lofty degree of intelligence nor imagination
nor both together go to the making of genius.
Love, love, love, that is the soul of genius.

We all know that if you wink at someone you’re sending them a signal that says you’re interested in them. Granted, most of us aren’t comfortable being quite that forward with a perfect stranger, but there are more subtle ways of showing interest by using body language.

It can be difficult when you are in a crowded bar or even at the grocery store to know if the person you find attractive is available, must less interested. However, with just a few small moves you can send them a signal that says you are open to getting to know them better.

Here are a few fun examples:
Running your hand through your hair. When a woman runs her hand through her hair, she is giving off a subtle signal that she is receptive. The reason for this is because when a woman pulls her hair away from her shoulders or her chest she is revealing more of herself to the man who has caught her eye.

Licking your lips. When a woman licks her lips or applies lipstick, she is drawing attention to her mouth. Because a woman’s mouth is a very sensual part of her body, a man is sure to take notice and will feel drawn to her.

Crossing the legs. Men absolutely love legs, and when a woman slowly crosses or uncrosses her legs, it catches a man’s attention. It’s a flirty move that is sure to get noticed, probably by more men than just the one she is trying to show interest in.

Smiling. Even something as simple as smiling is a form of body language. It shows that you are friendly and approachable. If you are interested in a man in the room, smiling at him will surely get his attention.

Looking directly into his eyes. Eye contact is one of the strongest forms of body language. When a woman looks into a man’s eyes, even before they have spoken, she is telling him that she’s not only comfortable with herself, but that she is very comfortable with him as well. Men love a strong woman and when a woman takes the initiative and makes eye contact, the man is much more likely to approach her.

Body language can be the difference between catching the eye of the man who has caught your attention or him wandering towards another person. Every woman should feel comfortable in her own skin and in using her feminine wiles to entice a man she finds intriguing. With just a few simple movements, a woman can show a man that his approaches are more than welcomed.

The first step is smiling and making eye contact, and after that, it is all up to you. Using body language to show your interest is a smart and effective way of breaking the ice. If you’re single and you see someone appealing, give it a try. You may just be surprised at how well those subtle movements work.

Thursday, April 26, 2012

Time For Tantra

Whilst ‘make up sex’ can be exciting, exhilarating, passionate and QUICK, it’s hardly going to be the glue that keeps her by your side or keep you two together. Hard, fast, thrusting is good, but not feasible in the long-term for obvious reasons! This is where Tantric sex comes in. In Tantric sex there is no goal of getting anywhere, of striving for the big “0”. Your approach with your partner is all about awareness and feeling, experiencing the “now”, with your ego dissolving and your heart opening. It’s a form of meditation that lets history dissolve, resentment fade away and anger turn into joy. It’s just what you need to get her back!

However, Tantric takes practice and it takes 2! So you have to convince her to take this journey with you and once you have both gone down this path, there will be no turning back. It’s not some huge mystery as most people seem to think and neither do you have to wait until you know it all. Every little step you take in this direction brings its own rewards and on this journey, you get to know yourself intimately first and then that of your partner, by exploring first the physical, the emotional and finally the spiritual.

If you explain this procedure to your ex, she is going to be spell bound and most definitely curious. Inviting you ex to your home to try out Tantra, requires her trust in you so don’t blow it! The first thing you need to do is design an “intimacy space”. Start off slow with a light intimate dinner and then proceed to this “space” which should be comfortable, relaxed and clear of clutter. It needs to be decorated with flowers, candles and cozy fabrics and the additional ambience created by the scent should be of natural oils like jasmine, ylang-ylang, or rose. Choose a soundtrack of music that you both like to be played as soft background music.

The next step is intimate and involves breathing each other’s breath. Harmonizing your breath is one of the easiest ways to sync with your partner. Straddle your partner’s lap (called the yab-yom position) and inhale while they exhale and vice versa. As your partner breathes out, you’ll find yourself taking their breath into and down through your entire body. As you exhale, consciously attempt to energize the breath. In this way, you’re sharing all of yourself with your partner. Whatever you do, do not lose control – this is critical!

Take it Slow!!! Foreplay is essential in Tantra. A slow build will not only help you maintain your erection but it will intensify her arousal. The longer you linger in this process of building energy, the longer your session will last and the more energy you will build. Use this time to fully focus on each other. As in meditation, when your thoughts wander, gently guide your attention back to your partner and the magic of the moment at hand.

Whilst all this erotic foreplay is building, maintaining eye contact is essential. You are going to make love with your eyes open as the ultimate display of your deep connection with your ex and the level of your intimacy. It will be a challenge particularly as the sensations of pleasure heighten. When the two of you finally make love, you’ll find the love making profoundly transformative and move each other in ways you could never imagine. You will have no need to worry as to whether she would accept your second invitation to “dinner”.

About The Author:
Oprah Love Expert Michael Webb is the founder of "Getting Her Back... for Good" and has taught 1000s of men all over the world how to recover their lost love. He details his steps and valuable advice at Getting Her Back.

Getting Her Back… For Good is NOT about shallow manipulation or obvious trickery. Rather, this book teaches you how to become a better YOU so she'll want you back

Thursday, March 29, 2012

Welcome My Darling

Her naked, curvaceous body stirred. Raising her arms above her head, smiling, she slowly opened her eyes, oblivious for a slight moment where she was exactly, stretching languorously. Turning over her shoulder, she sees him.

He is still sleeping peacefully, and she is pleasantly aware of a slight grin. He must be dreaming she thinks to herself, slowly swiveling her legs over the edge and heading for the bathroom.

As shes splashes the cool water over her face, she gets flashes of their first encounter, last night. It’s the first time he has shared her bed, and let him indulge her. She still feels the tingling pulsating thru her body as she allows these hot thoughts to run thru her mind. The build-up, the urgency, the passion, they had been lovers for months before he couldn’t stand it any longer and begged her to meet.

He turned up at her door, smiling, holding his arms out, as she instantly fell into them, kissing him, feeling him. They both knew what they were there for, no words needed. The electricity in the air seem to sizzle as they locked eyes, unable to contain themselves as they were invisibly drawn to the huge bathroom.

Welcome my darling she mumbled under his rough kisses, which covered her everywhere, slowly peeling off her tiny tee and shorts, and hoisting her up to the bench where he had better access to her delectable curvaceous body.. She spread open for him, her drenched thighs exciting him. Positioning himself between, he cradled her ample breasts in his hands and licked her erected nipples. Watching intently for her reaction as he began to suck her boobs into his mouth, softly nipping, squeezing, letting out soft moans into his ear. Her thighs spread open wider, her lower body rocking from his touch. Grabbing his chin, she drew closer planting wet, desperate kisses on his lips, parting his and exploring his eager tongue. He reached down to find her rigid clit pulsating, her wetness soaking his fingers, as he began rubbing her steamy folds.

Oh baby, I want you to taste and devour my pussy she whispered, licking his lips as if to show him the way she liked it. He didn’t hesitate. Lowering his kisses to her neck and back to her breasts, he continued kissing his way down to her navel, finally reaching her hotspot, prolonging the aching by nipping and licking his way all along her trembling inner thighs.

Instantly, she arched her back, her moans increasing, as he teased and licked her everywhere but there till she couldn’t stand it any longer, guiding his face to her throbbing mound and pushing his wet lips onto her. He took her delish love button gingerly into his mouth and began to suck and play with it, thrilling her, deep moans of pleasure escaping her lips, alternatively sliding his fingers into her moist slit, as she gyrated and writhed, wrapping her silky thighs around his neck, watching him feasting opulently and greedily.

With precision, he licked her good, up and down, all around, inside and out, her soaked cunt building up to the most anticipated amazing orgasm, how she longed for his touch, and now that he was finally with her, she was going to explode into his open mouth, and wanted him to lap it up, drink her, show his enthusiasm and lust for her.

The moment was now, as he drove his tongue deep into her tightness, his finger on her quivering clit, the wave rising, lost in sensation, as it came crashing, ripples of intense pleasure tingling her entire being, squeezing her thighs around him, crying out his name, rocking with him, over and over, her body heaving, then finally subsiding. Her spasms apparent, holding her pussy lips wide, allowing him to savour in her seeping juices.

Bringing his face to her, she licked away her scent off his lips, tasting herself, slimy tongues mingling, hungry, desperate, wanting more. This was just for starters, the night was going to be long. His rock hard cock, was eager for her attention

Lifting her off the bench she turned on the shower, and stepped inside. The cool water felt so good against her hot sweaty skin. She beckoned him to join her. Not wasting any time, stripping off, he immediately stepped in beside her and reached for her wet body, the kool water washing over both of them. Squeezing a generous amount of shower gel into her palms she proceeded to wash him everywhere, rubbing his skin, slightly scratching over his shoulders and back which gave him a sense of what was to come when they emerged. He did the same to her, soaping up her breasts and pussy, stirring her juices, feeling her, his expert hands all over her. It was time.

Slipping into fluffy large towels she took him by the hand and led him to her huge circular bed, with black satin sheets and aromatic scents wafting thru the air, subtle suggestive erotica hanging elegantly on the walls, the mood was right. The evening was just beginning!

Peeling off her towel, he laid her delicately onto the silky bedding and admired the voluptuous beauty before him. Months of waiting, agonising, anticipating was now finally a reality, and he couldn’t be happier.

Laying beside her, he watched her heaving breasts for a moment as she took deep breaths, her chest rising, her body slightly quivering, waiting for his touch, his love to engulf her, ravish her, as if her owned her. He reached for her huge ample boobs and slowly began stroking, tracing their shape, squeezing, teasing, looking at her in the eyes as he did so. She returned his stare, her eyes narrowing, her breath becoming soft pants, her whole groin area tingling. My love he whispered, tonight you will be under my spell, you are mine now, a desire I've had for a long time, the pain almost unbearable, till I held you here tonight.

Cradling her face in his hands, he parted her lips once again and deeply tongued her, his kissing stirring her folds, seeping slowly between her moist lips below. She eagerly responded by closing her eyes, losing herself, the passion so intense, urgent, letting him take her to a far away destination she was unsure of, yet totally submitting to. The headiness of his soft tongue caresses were driving her wild with abandonment, unleashing long lost passion she thought she'd never feel again, until she met him.

His kisses felt good, he didn’t hold back in making sure she felt them everywhere. Lips, cheeks, ears, neck, eyes, stomach, breasts, there was no stopping them, and she allowed herself to indulgue. Slowly, his tempo increased, as did his technique. She loved the way he would tease, nip, lick her and look for her reaction. Her moaning, and verbal use of his name frequently, spoke volumes, and made his cock even harder. He felt as if he was about to burst just by being with her, feeling her beside him, exploring her, but he had trained himself for this moment a long time ago. He wanted to please her, enjoy her, and that meant self control. It was damn hard, she made it so, but he did his best to hold back.

Pulling her on top of him, she straddled his chest, opening her thighs in his face, and let his tongue go to work on her again. Rubbing herself on his bristly chin, up and down, she closed her eyes dropping her head back and let out deep moans that delighted him. He wanted her scent on him, her taste in his mouth, and her moment of pleasure to wash over him. Licking his way inside her hot slit, he held her bare ass in his hands as he pushed her further and further into his eager face, her juices smothering him.

Her moans were filling the room, telling him to suck on her clit, as she looked down to watch him. He locked eyes with her, as her rigid love button disappeared between his lips, sucking her, twirling it around his tongue, feeling her tremble as she cried out with the most amazing shuddering orgasm that wouldn’t let up. Over and over the waves of pleasures radiating thru her, like electric current, pushing herself down onto him, as her spasms began. Holding open her lips, he was in awe as her inner drenched lips closed in in rythym, allowing her seeping delicious juices to flow into his open mouth. He drank her up, slurping her, using his tongue as you would a towel to completely lick her lips almost dry.

As her orgasm slowly subsided, her flipped her over down onto the bed face down and roughly spread her thighs. His cock was in agony, he needed to feel her from the inside, feel her heat, her walls closing in around him. He positioned himself between and slightly raised her hips off the bed. She looked like the norty girl he had visions of in his dreams, and now, here she was, all his, down on all fours and he was about to dip into the sweetest nectar honey pot.

Reaching down between her legs, turning her head slightly to look at him, she started rubbing her clit as he slid his massive throbbing pole along her burning hole, and over her swollen puffy lips. His teasing was too much, and she begged him to fuck her. He loved hearing that. Her sex was insatiable, wild, no woman has ever touched the core of his being like she had for a long time.

Finding her tight wet opening, grabbing his cock, he teased her with lil pushes of his thick head at the entrance, splicing her lips open then finally sinking his aching cock into the depths of her fiery inferno. Instantly, loud moans escaping his lips, drawing out then plunging in again. She felt so good, her walls squeezing tight around him, this was his moment. His moment to be selfish, demand of her, indulge her, use her as his toy. Again and again he repeatedly drove the entire length of his hard cock balls deep into her soaked snatch, his xxcitement building fast, listening to her filth, her pleasure, her wet pussy sounds. She submitted to him totally.

Grunting hard, he was fucking her hot slit good.

Grabbing her by her curvaceous hips, he steadied her as his tempo increased, along with his desperate moaning and heavy breathing. Her tight friction felt amazing, he knew she felt it too, when she yelled out she could feel every inch of his hard cock. Mmmm she was sooo norty. And he loved it.

His cock was about to unleash with every thrust, his throbbing building, tearing into her again and again like a beast possessed. Her screams mingling with his deep groaning. Fast approaching the point of no return. Where do you want me to cum he asked, slapping her round ass, continuing to pound into her. I want to taste you she responded, I want your hot cum all over my face and in my mouth. Mmmmm

His cock couldn’t handle it another second, she wanted him so much with her licking of her lips and sexy bedroom eyes. Thrusting, roaring, he pulled out and she quickly turned around between his legs as he shot his hot built-up load into her open awaiting mouth and all over her face.. His cum pumping out uncontrollably in huge spurts as she tasted him and let him cover her.

Licking his cum off her face, he shared it with her not missing a drop. Using his tongue to feed her, spread it all over her tongue and watched her swallow it all.

Yes their steamy night of lovemaking had just begun, they were both like a never-ending fire that never went out and they both needed more quelling. Laying in each others arms, bodies entwined, eyes locked, they kissed passionately both relishing in the afterglow, tho never allowing it to kool. Had she found her soulmate? both in love and sex? time would tell.

Friday, March 16, 2012

why the single woman wont commit

welcome to the noughties.

I hear it all the time, men moaning about there isnt women that are interested in commitment, family and stability. For the noughties women, commitment means compromise. Social climate change has brought to table, choices. For the modern woman, the social developments from the past 20 years has been phenomenal. Salaries have increased across the board, women are excelling more than ever academically giving access to more career choices and finanical stability.

With financial stability comes the ability to self sustain such a lifestyle, she has the opportunity to finance purchases like apartments, cars, investments, businesses. A new breed of female dominance has emerged. One that has the woman equate a commited relationship identical to giving something up.

She has moved beyond the helpless feeling of needing someone and is actively seeking a self-sufficient pro-creative lifestyle. As she moves onto her own independance, she develops an acute sense of taste and knows what she is looking for when it comes to dating material. She has grown tired of all the lame outdated dating advise. She sees a commited relationship as something that is not for keeps, a union that she selectively choose to compliment her rather than have her compromise.

However successful the modern woman, her biological clock is still ticking. There are plenty of career focused women opting not to have children and the ones that do have choices. It is clear that women will not compromise their lives for the sake of a relationship.

I don't have all the answers to this issue, but I do see that women are increasingly dominant in relationships, whilst the guys have simply lost their direction. Whilst a woman may want her man to act like a man, it is a man with conditions. It may not be that women can't commit, it may simply be that they don't have to anymore.

Saturday, March 3, 2012

are you obsessed with finding a partner?

Just as "more of us are on diets than ever before but obesity rates are rising, something about dating is making us single.” (Times)

The rate of people choosing singledom has risen and doubled over the past 20 years or so. This, not so surprizingly, has been coupled by the increasingly popular use of speed dating, online dating and dating communities.

The primary goal of dating is to find and meet a suitable partner, however, as much as we know this, there are several pitfalls that make up "the problem of dating ettiquette" are you too focused on the "idea" of finding your perfect mate?

1) Dating

Dating is often seen as high pressured. We are constantly sizing up the physical, personality flaws, compatibility, habits, responses, over what really is important, like friendship and getting to know them. We think, because we do it, other daters will be making their judgements too about us. We cant relax enough, always feeling we have to be competitive, losing touch if we stop.

2) Problems with focusing on finding a partner

Finding a suitable partner is something we shouldnt be seeking to find, rather, to be open to and allow it to occur. It is something we shouldnt be desiring to acquire. Alasdair Macintyre calls it “networks of giving and receiving”. Relationships must be two way. If we go into a relationship systematically focused on what we’re going to get out of it, we’re setting ourselves up to fail from the start, we allow ourselves to equate the act of finding a partner as a matter of acquisition, a selfish calculation of costs and assets and what we can strive to benefit out of analysis. Theres no sense of sharing with the other person. Its as if being with someone, anyone really, is priority rather than cherishing the qualities of the relationship alone. Ask yourself honestly, where is the love there? We are more preoccupied with finding a partner than with nurturing the time of giving onself to the ideal investment of creating a warm, foundation-strong love and friendship.

3) So what is the solution?

Really, as obvious as it may sound, we should be affording our time with other people, getting to know them instead of looking. Our focus should primarily be on understanding, creating and nurturing friendships. We should be aiming to profoundly deepen and enhance those friendships, to evolve beyond the superficial shallowness phase. When time is spent developing this area, it is highly likely that, more often than not, positive relationships may result from this, therefore, we should view this as an additional positive benefit and not the primary focus.

Sunday, February 26, 2012

can men and women be just friends?

Sure mixed-sex "platonic" friendships exist theoretically, but in the real world, do they ever really work?

Before we delve into the answers, let's take a few moments to outline what exactly a platonic relationship is. According to the Webster Dictionary, it is "a close relationship between two persons in which sexual desire is nonexistent or has been suppressed or sublimated."

In other words, in the case of mixed sex platonic relationships, its having a best friend of the opposite sex who you hang out with without any sexual interest or involvement.

But what really happens when a girl and boy become friends? do they set the boundary lines from the start? What do they do about their attraction felt towards each other? do they pull back when they sense they get close to crossing the friend/relationship line? or do they feel that sex will not harm their friendship and indulge?

Men and women seek friends of the opposite sex for different reasons. for men, its the emotional aspect and gaining deeper understanding about the female sex from a womans point of view, which helps them cope in their relationships, and women because, truth be told, guys do tend to be less bitchy and emotional than their female friends counterparts, and can just be themselves more.

But my, doesnt the sex always eventually get in the way? we read often almost on a daily basis just how guys and gals start off being friends with the bestest intentions, then after some time, curiosity, vulnerbility, chemistry, a shift in the "just friends" agreement can lead to confused mixed feelings and how fast those that are "just friends" can progress and cross the line past the platonic stage, leading to sex and possibly regret.

I personally do NOT believe that deep down in the depths of our instinctual realms that men and women can be just friends. This was reinforced by my upbringing and my personal experiences and additionally what I have observed around me. Growing up as a 1st generation Australian, (whos parents still had their values back in 1950's Greece) my parents forbade me to have sleep overs with friends that had brothers. When I questioned why, the answer I got from my mother was you cant trust what guys will do. When I entered my marriage, my hubby was possessive and got touchy if I so much talked to my male neighbours, same goes for post-divorce boyfriends. An example when out one day, a friend I have known for years stopped to say hi and I didnt hear the end of it.

Then came my personal experiences. Guy friends that ive known for years, suddenly started hitting on me shortly after I became single. Some I rejected, others I indulged with and the friendship soon fizzled the same time as the sex did, reinforcing it further and I dare not talk about the few friends that were unfortuate enough to fall victim to their partners sleeping with their best friends, people they saw regulary and socialised with and are usually there for you. Sad.

To help me research this topic, I took it even further and started a twitter thread on this very subject. I wasnt expecting a great deal many responses, but ended up was totally overwhelmed with the different and varied answers I got.

This is the question I posed: Can men and women be just friends? have you crossed the line and happen to remain friends? or has sex ruined your friendship?

Most of the guys and a few females I tweeted with said they have had sex with friends and still remained friends. One said his friend was so hot, admits thinking about sex with her but hasnt made the move. He feels he has a good deal going, as he gets to 'hang' with her other friends that are also just as hot. I replied saying could this be a small element of show involved? like look you guys how hot my friend is? he agreed it could and further went on to say it could be a downside when your with someone. A female also said that she out of curiosity and chemistry, did sleep with her friend and they are now as close as ever. One guy said he slept with his friend once and never since and they are closer now even after 30 years past. One female even said shes known guys to dissolve the friendship once they find a partner prompting me to question a guys motives for becoming friends with women in the first place. I replied that guys might use friendship as a way "in", might have other feelings than friendship and eventually will want to attempt to sleep with his friend. I tend to agree with her. Some guys are cluee and know what women want, a guy that they can call a friend, when all along his motives can be quite different.

So there you have it. Some will argue yes, men and women can be friends and some say NO WAY. I am one of the latter. Even if the friendship does happen to survive the sex, will it ever be the same again? Assuming your wanting to keep the original agreement of having a platonic relationship, you risk emotions changing, knowing a side to your friend that you might even regret and the friendship part fizzling, with conversation afterwards going stale, and feeling uncomfortable doing just friend things together like hanging out.

You may as the reader, have other ideas. I would love to hear of your thoughts, please post below, even if we have already chatted about this. Thanks so much everyone for your input at twitter. Much appreciated!!

Friday, February 24, 2012

anal sex tips for beginners

I believe sex should be a loving, mutual, heart racing activity that brings couples together passionately and anticipating every move. Sadly for some, sex becomes routine, boring, predictable so its understandable that couples can cringe at the thought of climbing into bed with each other.

Do you always have sex the same old way? Never trying anything new? This is alot of the reason why relationships can go stale and have partners seeking sexual fulfillment elsewhere. This may sound harsh, but im not here to sugar-coat things or say things you want to hear. Here I speak the brutal truth. Sex gets boring = unhappy lovers = affairs.

Another brutal truth is: MOST WOMEN LOVE ANAL SEX! Yes, its true! We find it fascinating, stimulating, naughty but ohh sooo exciting. However, couples are lead to believe that anal sex is taboo, dirty, and only usually reserved for homosexual sex. Even though BOTH sexes desire it. Men often hold back for fear of being labelled as gay, they are wrongly lead to believe that if a guy has dirty thoughts of having anal, he must be gay right? and women for the fear of labelled a slut. They tell us that anal sex is painful, can cause injury and can become addictive, used in the place of normal sexual relations.

Despite all the touchiness around the topic, the desire for anal sex is strong.

Today I will discuss the subject of anal sex and how you can experiement with and enjoy this exciting alternative to sexual intercourse, and do it correctly with safety and enjoyment for both partners. The US Center for Disease Control determined, in a 2005 survey, showed that 40 percent of men and 35 percent of women between 25 and 44 had engaged in heterosexual anal sex; in 1992 a similar survey found that only 25.6 percent of men 18 to 59 and 20.4 percent of women 18 to 59 had. (reference: CDC).

So if your a beginner, how do you approach the subject with your partner? Well, there really is no right or wrong way about it. However, I believe confidence does come into play. Nothing turns a women off trying anal for the first time than having a clumsy, or shy-to-talk-about-it lover. You may have even attempted anal sex but have gone to fast and hurt her, so she maybe reluctant to ever try it again.

1) Communication. this is paramount!! dont be afraid to discuss with your partner what you desire, and want to try with her. Women do appreciate a guy who is honest and shows that his keen, no matter what the situation. She will feel that if you have taken it to the point of asking about what her feelings are, you obviously care a great deal and are receptive to have her suggest ways on how to improve your sex life. Get her to open up and tell you her true feelings about anal sex, and whether shes ready for it or not. Most women report powerful orgasms when engaging in anal sex, so it helps to have her guiding you. Does she have any fears about anal sex? Discuss these together and be understanding to her responses. Some of her fears maybe pain, mess, injury or STD's. Which I will discuss later.

2) Preparing. So im assuming you both have come to the decision of trying anal sex. Congratulations! So its very important to prepare. The most obvious preparation is water-based lubrication. The rectal passage lining has very little natural lubrication, so for anal sex to glide smoothly, its very important to have the correct water-based anal lube. The best lube for anal sex is water based not oil based, as it is non-irratative and longer lasting. Also when it comes to lube and condom use, water based lube doesnt weaken and erode the rubber like oil-based does. Very important.

If you are concerned about mess, then a good tip is to completely irrigate, clean and refresh the rectum by using a good quality anal douche. Alot of the concerns first time users have is of possible mess anal sex can have. An easy to use anal douche kit application will have you feeling cleansed and ready for any kind of anal play.

Safety is another concern. The anus can be sensitive. And because the anal passage has virtually no natural lubricant, it can be suceptible to tiny cuts and abrasions. This can lead to thrush and urinary tract infections, even though assuming you are with a committed lifetime partner. The best protection to use is a good quality condom. Not ribbed or spermacide lubed, as spermacide lubed condoms can be irratative. (remember guys, you cant get an ass pregnant lol). If you are going to be using fingers or tongues to stimulate the anus, then for added precaution, dams and finger gloves are recommended. Dams are thin latex sheets that are placed over the anus for oral-anal (or ass to mouth or A2M) contact and come in flavoured or plain. Finger gloves are individual latex finger gloves that are perfect for exploring and gentle anal play.

3) Anal Sex Positions and techniques. If you are a beginner, try experimenting a lil to find the most comfy anal sex position. Most start out with doggie. As this offers the best access for anal penetration and is visually quite stimulating and a powertrip for most men. Missionary and reverse missionary are also fabulous alternatives. With missionary, the woman is lying on her back with her legs drawn up and spread wide. This position is great for deeper penetration. Just make sure to go easy. A lot of trust is placed on her partner as she is almost rendered helpless and it can be tempting for her mate to be in total control of depth and speed. With reverse missionary, she is lying face down or with her ass slightly raised. This can be such a turn on as it gives access to her clitoris and g-spot, if her mate stimulates her with his hand.

Anal sex of course, doesnt have to be all about penetration. There are several ways to have fun with anal. Try anal finger play, massage, anillingus, teasing and caressing, medical exams role play, mistress/submissive play, femdom, gender bender games, anal gaping, anal masturbation play, male prostrate massage. The idea is to feel comfy and not be afraid to experiment and explore your wild streak. You will find anal stimulation opens up new ways to have fun and creates new fantasies that will spice up your sex life GUARANTEED!! Have fun!

For further reading and viewing I highly recommend:

>>>> The Better Sex Guide To Anal Pleasure DVD & Adult Sex Kit.

>>>> Anal Sex Secrets DVD

>>>> Nina Hartely's Guide To Strap-On Anal Sex DVD

>>>> The Ultimate Guide To Anal Sex For Men

>>>> The Ultimate Guide To Anal Sex For Women

The Ultimate Guide To Anal Sex For Women

Wednesday, January 11, 2012

What Phrase Turns People On More Than Any Other?

What phrase turns your partner on more than any other?

If your sweetheart lost all inhibitions, what “naughty” act would he or she want to try? Would your beloved get turned on if you shampooed your pubic hair and then neatly trimmed it for you?

You might not know the answers to these questions but imagine if you did. How turned on would you get? There is an easy way to find out the answer to your partner’s most secretive, lustful feelings and fantasies. Ask.

Well, just coming out and asking might be….. awkward.

Just coming out of the blue and asking these potentially risky questions can actually sabotage the intimacy. I have discovered a much better way.

My friend Michael Webb (one of Oprah’s favorite relationship and intimacy experts) has come up with an incredible list of 500 Intimate Questions for Couples.

These questions are professionally designed from Michael’s 20-plus years of experience in helping couples in this area. He wisely lays out the questions in the right order so that you being in safe territory and build trust before the really deep and erotic questions come up.

I’ve heard some really powerful stories from men and women who have used these questions to not only connect deeply, but to have the hottest, passionate nights of their lives.

You can get access to the 500 questions right here:

Do YOU KNOW the #1 Secret to the deepest intimacy & the hottest sex?

Warm Regards,

Miz Helena

P.S. In our personal experience and from the stories our readers have shared, asking just a few of these questions will probably build up a LOT of sexual tension. So be prepared for what will likely follow

Tuesday, January 10, 2012

does your partner have roving eyes?

Looking. We all look. We have eyes. Sometimes roving eyes. Does your partner gawk at others in your company? Do they give lame explanations or just shrugg it off? Does this bother you? Should it bother you?

Well, newsflash: beauty is eyeball grabbing! Im as straight as they come and even I eyeball at such beauty!! However, I have to be honest to say it was never like that in the past. My ex was a constant eye rover, whether with me or not. I never use to speak up about it, but naturally was fuming inside. The reasons why I didnt were not too appear that it "got" to me, in the hope he would sense it didnt bother me, so it would cease. But it did, and it didnt. It gave me the feeling he saw me as someone he was comfortable with instead of someone he was attracted to as sexy. I would think that I wasnt attractive enough to him, that he wanted other women, and worst of all, that he was a potential cheater. This just strengthened when he use to get the shits if I dressed in low-cut tops or great fitting jeans and he'd say to me: dont wear that, other guys might check you out!! Even when a good-looking guy caught my eye and I so much stared, he would get touchy.

If men/women consciously refrain themselves from looking, they do so as not to evoke jealousy, tears and anger from their lovers. When you pester them about it, the trouble now is that whenever you go out together, your aware that theyre trying VERY hard NOT to look at others - and that is nearly as bad as when they do. By all means, if you want to control every lil thing your mate does, then turn your relationship into a police state, but be prepared for resentment, and more secretive behaviour as they now know what ticks you off.

Fast forward a few years, now in a new relationship, I now join in!! Its impossible to control roving eyes in both male or females unless you date a legally blind person or chain them to the house. Simple. You might be ogling coz spring is in the air and suddenly theres an influx of scantilly clad bronzed bodies on display. To witness a woman in a mini skirt after drab layers of winter garb is such a refreshing sight. Your man cant help notice and im sure you cant either. I love how my boy checks out women, I dont feel threatned, in fact I point them out to him and we both indulge. Same goes for men. We women cant help looking at gorgeous solid bodies, faces, buns, legs. Ok, maybe we are a lil better at discretion, but we still ogle.

Bottom line is theres a saying that goes: Dont worry where he/she gets their appetite from, just as long as they eat at home.

Monday, January 9, 2012

3 Ways To Intensify Your Orgasms & Intimacy During Lovemaking

Did you know that one of the best ways to intensify orgasms and the overall lovemaking experience is by having prolonged foreplay?

It's true. Including "prolonged foreplay," you're about to learn three ways to add new levels of passion and excitement to your lovemaking that will bring you and your partner even closer. So here we go!

1. Prolong your foreplay

An extended period of foreplay amplifies your sexual experience because it gives you time to build up sexual anticipation. Why does this work? It's just human nature. Think about a big event in your life. Whether it be a party, a holiday, or a major movie launch, chances are that you were so excited by the buildup and buzz that it made the experience 10 times better.

Well, the same rules apply to making love. So next time you spend some time under the sheets, make a conscious effort to explore your partner’s body. Leave a trail of kisses all over their body, run your fingers along their skin and gaze lovingly into their eyes.

The more time you spend devoted to foreplay, the greater the experience for both of you. And if you want to feel the magic even more then...

2. Try new things with a "twist"

Now don’t get me wrong here, I'm not talking about JUST trying a new lovemaking position, tip, technique or even location. While these things would definitely spice things up, you can make your experience even more fulfilling,
simply by using a little added creativity.

For example: Why not learn a new technique––pack a picnic and head to a beautiful park for the day. And if you find a private spot, who knows what might end up happening? :D Going on dates like these helps to bring back the magic that made you fall in love in the first place.

3. Play bedroom games

Tasteful, fun and alluring sex games are one of the best ways to intensify orgasms and the entire lovemaking experience. Not only are they extremely fun and have a lot of 'replay value,' but they actually accomplish BOTH the other tips at the same time too!

Because when you play a sex game you…

1. Automatically extend foreplay in a fun and interesting way
2. Try new things that the game tells you to do

And even while some games only consist of familiar tips and moves, you'll be using them in new scenarios, which actually makes them feel new.

Maybe you’ll use a deck of cards or dice to create your own passionate play. Perhaps you’ll adapt a sport game for the bedroom. Or maybe you’ll just want to use your bodies as the props. It doesn’t matter. Simply get excited and unleash some creativity!

So if you want to create a magical experience, remember there’s no better way than playful game that combines both prolonged foreplay and trying new things.


About the Author:

Oprah Love Expert Michael Webb is the author of "100 Sex Games For Couples,"
a book full of ways to spice up your lovemaking, adding more passion and intimacy
to your experience. To read more, visit:

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